Why there is a need for toilet training?

May 15, 2012. Paul Hixon

Kids usually develop their independence in using the toilet during the age of 18- 36 months. This is part of the natural growth and development that the child must undergo in order to fulfill a need and grow up to be a responsible individual.

The child must not be forced to start toilet training because they will eventually learn this when you begin to expose them to it. As parents, you must allow the child to be present when you go to the bathroom and make your child feel comfortable. Allow them to see urine and bowel movements in the toilet and let them play with flushing the toilet. More importantly, allow the child to touch and become familiar with the potty chair.

It is important if you have a washlet, like the TOTO Washlet attached to your toilet you remove it as it makes the toilet harder to use for children potty training.

As parents you must be aware of the signs when your child shows readiness as well as resistance. Readiness of the child include staying dry for at least two hours at a time, having regular bowel movements, being able to follow simple instructions, being uncomfortable with dirty diapers and wanting them to be changed, asking to use the potty training, or asking to wear regular underwear. You should also be aware of the facial expressions and posture of your kids when they feel the urge to urinate and defecate. When the child is starting to show interest, allow the child to participate in choosing his or her own potty chair to add motivation. This will let the kids feel comfortable since they will be using their favorite potty chair. Help them decorate and personalize the chair to indicate that they own the chair. Never insist or delay training if they show resistance. You can always explain to them what to do and keep encouraging them whenever they have did it successfully.

There are certain things to avoid when toilet training your child are starting during a stressful time or period of change in the family, pushing your child too fast, and punishing mistakes. Be patient and be sure to go at your child’s pace and show strong encouragement, perhaps give incentives every time the toilet training is successful. The willingness of the child is one thing that must be considered thus, it is important to take your time to gain the trust and cooperation of your child.

Updated May 15, 2012. Published May 26, 2011. Paul Hixon